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Sunday, March 18, 2007

Namesake review, kinda.

The desi blogosphere, especially among the ones who are living in North America has been talking about the movie, Namesake.

I too watched it and also wanted to lend my voice to the digital noise. It is interesting to me that, most people could relate to that movie, especially the ones who came here as immigrants along with their family and the ones who were born and brought up here. For me though, the movie's depiction didnt relate much to my experiences here. There wasn't much of initial shock value that this country offered because it was Rapid City that I first set my foot (the port of entry, not withstanding). The loneliness that would otherwise be forced on other because of strangeness of situation (location, language etc) didnt really happen because I prepared myself to an outcome that I wont be accepted. In that way, I never looked for any acceptance, so I took my initial months with a 'matter of fact' way.

However, coming to talk about the movie - it was slow, not painfully, but more because the director tried to strike a balance between pacing it and also wanting to give time to the international audience to grasp her message. Fortunately enough, the movie as a whole didnt have much message to give, except an attempt to show a certain bengali family's experience spanning two generations.

I wont be harsh on Kal Penn, if I say that it was actually the first generation which was presented in a more wholesome way - also not to mention Irfan Khan and Tabu were much more seasoned actors than KP. Alright brother, no hatred there, I am just stating they had been in this for a longer time than you. However, you did the job much much more convincingly than any other bollywood fratboys could have ever done. I am also glad that it wasn't Abhishek Bacchan who played Gogol. Gosh, imagine him being in dual-minds - "Should sound like an American or my dad, ummm..mommy..."- Fucking mama boyz, I tell ya. They should be shot!

I dont think Gogol's character was given enough time to develop. Instead of showing him go away with her girlfriend on vacation with her parents, they should have shown more of their together time after his dad passed away. That way, we could have understood his reasons of wanting to break up with her. Basically, a girl cannot turn from being a perfect fun companion to an insensitive freak - they do, but not within minutes, you get the drift? ;-)

The character who Gogol married was the most pathetic. Mousami fukturd - I mean what was the real reason Gogol fell in love with her, really? That she had so many lovers? She wasn't even that sexy and she had horrible horrible butt. Full of lard, must be all that french cheese.

Overall, it was an average movie - thoroughly enjoyable, but if you are expecting any answers to your any 'what is the answer of this immigrant life' sorta questions, I'd take my 10 dollars to buy a song by Punk Pink.

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Tuesday, March 06, 2007

Build a house

There is ancient wisdom that in order to learn responsibility, one must build a house. I know that building a home (as opposed to buying one) these days is still a gruelling task, but there is something greatly potent about wanting to build your own stuff.

For that past 2 months, I am consumed with this desire and effort of turning my business ideas into reality. It is such a revelation that you need to sell your ideas to multiple people even to get them interested about, let alone collaborate. With this new wisdom, I step forward with awe and admiration towards people who made it big in their ventures.

HP, IBM, Google - these corporations arent built in day. I salute, but hoping to take a leaf from these bigwigs and keep chugging. I hearby pledge my next few years towards my ideas and hope I learn something out of it. I am drunk with ambition - wish me good luck.

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Saturday, March 03, 2007

I am in love!

There, it happened. I used the love word and 'I' in one sentence.

The woman is a wonderful, charming, passionate and compassionate human being. She is also beautiful and yet being an articulate communicator at the same time. There might be a problem, that she is not a desi. You see, my mom will just have to accept my decision, but knowing the firebrand negotiator my girl is, she can convince my mom that she is the best out there.

Guess who she is - her name is Suze, albiet a very famous last name Orman. I love her with all my wallet :) She even knows about Lakshmi, the hindu goddess of wealth and the reason why a home must be clean - now, those same stories that my mom told me while she was doing the 'Varalaxmi vratam' and all. Not only she is so well versed with her financial matters, but the way she gets to the real side of her callers is just all her wisdom.

Her show is turning 5 this week and heres to wish 50 more for her show.

Is she single, even? :)

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